Thank heavens women are no longer hampered by the old fashioned ideas of the past. Today's woman can propose to a man without being labeled "shameless" or "desperate"! How she goes about that proposal is critical to the outcome, so we have provided some valuable tips on how to propose to a man to ensure that your man responds with an enthusiastic yes when you propose.
 You must first objectively evaluate your relationship. Are you compatible with your boyfriend, do you want the same things in life? Is marriage the next logical step? If the answer to these questions is yes, decide on your approach. Most experts suggest a private setting for just you and your man. Most men will not like having an audience, especially if they are traditional. Remember, he might be thrilled with your initiative, but it may take awhile for him to be totally comfortable with the idea of his girlfriend proposing.
Next, you must decide on a time and a place. A special anniversary the two of you share is a special time to propose. The location of your first date would make a great venue. Concentrate on what he enjoys and center your proposal on that. Camping, dinner at a restaurant, a special meal prepared at home, or sporting events are all good options. Whatever you decide, make sure your proposal does not rely on events you cannot control, such as good weather or perfect timing.
Also remember, if he does not immediately respond with a yes, listen to his reasons. He may have valid reasons for wanting to wait. If you agree and feel you are working together to reach the altar, stay in the relationship. On the other hand, if you feel he just does not feel the same way about the relationship that you do, it may be time to move on. How to propose to a man is not that different from how men propose to women, it's all about saying what's in your heart. |
